feast or famine

[slyyder]

always seems a bit like that... had nothing in ages, then 2 responses to my profile/s on dating sites in the last couple of weeks, leading to a lunch with one yesterday and coffee tonight with another... both enjoyable enough, will see what if anything further happens... though neither jumped out as anything special or definite... but even if not, is good to get out, socialise, good practice as well in a sense *S*

What it has made me do is look and re-evaluate what I may want or look for in a potential partner... I'm not one whose thought that a couple must have nearly everything in common, interests, thoughts, ideas, passions, whatever... some for sure, but not all... but this has made me look more at what, or how much, as well as maybe re-look at myself and whats key and important to me...

As anyone on here would know and have seen, sport and in particular my football is a key factor to me and my life... but its not my be all and end all, so have always thought that as long as there was at least a lot of other stuff in common and maybe an acceptance of that being important for me, that that would be enough... but am beggining to wonder more if a interest and passion for sport is more of a deal breaker, that an understanding of the passion for it at least is needed... wondering where something changes from becoming something to be accepted to something that has to be shared...

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[cheeky-1.livejournal.com]

you know, i will say this, i had a idea in what i wanted for a mate... but what i found was nothing like what i was looking for. Does this make sense? I say date, have fun, find someone thtas the oppisite of you and give it a try.. *S*

Dan and i are nothing alike.. and at times i feel we are still like that, but at the sametime its fun learning together.