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Man is only miserable so far as he thinks himself so.
Jacopo Sannazaro

Never think that you're not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. People will take you very much at your own reckoning.
Anthony Trollope

If you think taking care of yourself is selfish, change your mind. If you don't, you're simply ducking your responsibilities.
Ann Richards

Try to put your happiness before anyone else's, because you may never have done so in your entire life, if you really think about it, if you are really honest with yourself.
Margaret Cho

The worst thing you can possibly do is worrying and thinking about what you could have done.
Georg Christoph Lichtenberg

A man's worst enemies can't wish on him what he can think up himself.
Yiddish Proverb

Holding anger is a poison. It eats you from the inside. We think that hating is a weapon that attacks the person who harmed us. But hatred is a curved blade. And the harm we do, we do to ourselves.
Mitch Albom

Happiness is something that you are and it comes from the way you think.
Wayne Dyer

I am so beautiful, sometimes people weep when they see me. And it has nothing to do with what I look like really, it is just that I gave myself the power to say that I am beautiful, and if I could do that, maybe there is hope for them too. And the great divide between the beautiful and the ugly will cease to be. Because we are all what we choose.
Margaret Cho

on 2007-12-09 05:55 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] greenforest-elf.livejournal.com

Thanks for this post Slydy... this one is hitting home today :)

Holding anger is a poison. It eats you from the inside. We think that hating is a weapon that attacks the person who harmed us. But hatred is a curved blade. And the harm we do, we do to ourselves.
Mitch Albom

on 2007-12-09 06:02 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] slyyder.livejournal.com
yeah, the ones about "you are what you think" were more what I was feeling/needing/looking for, but that one really spoke to me as well, and is so true

on 2007-12-09 07:44 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] greenforest-elf.livejournal.com
It sure is.... and mine has been eating away at me for 11 years.... I want to be rid of it and I try so hard...and fail.

*hugs*

on 2007-12-09 07:59 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] slyyder.livejournal.com
remember the book The Four Agreements that I mentioned in this post here (http://slyyder.livejournal.com/158942.html) that you saw... theres a similar quote from that I always try and remember on the same line of thinking...

We must forgive those we feel have wronged us, not because they deserve to be forgiven, but because we love ourselves so much we don't want to keep paying for the injustice. Forgiveness is the only way to heal. We can choose to forgive because we feel compassion for ourselves. We can let go of the resentment and declare "That's enough! I will no longer be the big Judge that goes against myself. I will no longer beat myself up and abuse myself. I will no longer be the Victim."
don Miguel Ruiz

And in the end that is the key, its not about compassion for others and forgiving others, its about compassion for yourself, caring about yourself, and letting go of that poison and hatred for your own good, not anyone else.

on 2007-12-09 01:58 pm (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] greenforest-elf.livejournal.com
Yup this is so right but heaps harder to actually apply it to myself even tho I know I need to for ME

wish they'd sell self worth in a bottle hey!!

*smooch*

on 2007-12-09 11:16 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] amethyst-venus.livejournal.com
*hugs* These are a perfect reminder that we are all human.

We need to all get off our butts, appreciate what we have and go and achieve/get what we want :)

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